Orange County Singles | Why You Should Never Settle in Love

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Relationships are very complicated today. As time passes, things change, and it’s clear that the structure and reality of finding love changes too. It is more common today to meet someone because you are friends with them on Facebook or follow them on Instagram. We don’t know about you, but we find that to be very sad. We work with people who take dating very seriously and will never settle for anything less than they deserve.

Even though it seems nearly impossible to find your Prince Charming, you should never settle for a guy that doesn’t value you for who you are. Don’t settle for a guy who only calls you late at night. Don’t settle for a guy that doesn’t respect you. Don’t settle for a guy that doesn’t take your views and opinions into consideration. Don’t settle for anything less than you deserve.

Today, we are going to show why you should never settle in love.

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1. You deserve so much more.

No matter who you are, what you look like, or where you come from, you are a beautiful woman and deserve the best in the world. If a guy makes you feel beautiful and perfect in your own way, he is a great partner for you. Don’t settle for a guy that talks to other women the same way he does to you. Don’t settle for a guy that ignores your messages and doesn’t answer promptly. Believe it, sweetheart, you deserve much more than those guys.

2. You are wasting your time.

Yes, guys have a way of knowing what to say at the perfect times. It has happened to many women just like you. He will call you every sweet name just to get one thing from you. Don’t waste your precious time on someone that only does things for their own benefit.

Push him away, put on some lipstick and move on. Spend your time doing things that make you happy. Work out, go out with your friends, have a girls’ night in, and don’t suck into a relationship with someone who’s only looking to take advantage of you.

3. You are only hurting yourself.

Being alone is often thought of as the worst possible scenario, but it isn’t. People often cite dying alone as their worse fear in life. Single women over the age of 33 are told they’ll become cat ladies if they don’t find someone soon. People think that being single is the worst thing that can ever happen in life. But as matchmakers with nearly 30 years of experience, we know that being in an unhappy relationship is the worst thing.

4. You can’t start a family if you are not happy.

When it comes to having children, it’s never a good idea to bring them into an unhappy relationship. Of course, single parents can do just as good job as parents who are together, but that’s if they’re being the best versions of themselves. It’s hard to be the best version of yourself if you’re in an unhappy relationship. Relationships that are not genuine can sometimes harbor a lot of tension, which isn’t a good environment to raise children.

5. You are building a bad habit.

Every now and then, people settle not because they are afraid to be single or because their biological clock is ticking, but because they simply can’t find the motivation to do something about it. We can all agree that dating takes a lot of work and dedication, and it takes even more work to leave your comfort zone. It’s easy to settle out of pure laziness, but it probably won’t lead to happiness.

If you’re lazy in other areas of your life, you’re likely to transfer that laziness into your relationships. Being a person who’s in control of their own destiny and pursues what she wants takes work and practice, and usually doesn’t come with being a person who will accept anything less than they deserve.

6. You miss true love.

Perhaps the worst reason to settle in a relationship is that you miss the chance of true love. You could miss your chance of meeting your true soulmate if you settle for less than you deserve.

Yes, people have fallen in love while they were already in relationships, but that’s much more complicated than being single and available. We’re not saying to stay single forever, but don’t waste your time with someone who isn’t right for you, especially if they don’t treat you right. You want that chemistry, those butterflies and sparks, so don’t settle for someone who doesn’t make your heart flutter in the beginning stages of dating.

If you’re tired of not meeting the right guys on your own, it’s time you outsource your dating life to our Irvine matchmakers here at Orange County Singles Dating Service. Let us introduce you to quality single men in Orange County who are fit to date and compatible with you. Don’t miss out on your chance at true love – call us today!

To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today.

 

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